How to Start Using ASL With Your Toddler During Daily Routine
- Vielka Montout
- Feb 22
- 3 min read
Updated: 4 days ago
Your toddler is crying. You know they need something. They know what they want. Yet, neither of you has the words yet. This is the moment where early signs can change everything.

Early access to language supports brain development, emotional regulation, and later literacy. For Deaf and Hard of Hearing children, visual language is not just a support; it is access. For hearing children, signing reduces frustration and increases communication before speech is fully developed.
When children can express more, eat, help, stop, and love, their behavior changes because their communication changes.
Language first. Behavior follows.
Understanding Early Communication
You do not need to be fluent to begin. Every small step counts. Start here:
Sign during meals: Use signs like more, eat, drink, all done.
Sign during play: Incorporate signs such as play, help, stop, again.
Sign during transitions: Use signs like wait, finished, clean up.
Sign during connection moments: Share signs like love, happy.
Say the word. Make the sign. Repeat it every time. Consistency builds understanding.

Try This Today: The Mealtime Routine
At your next meal, try this simple routine:
Hold up the food and sign eat.
Wait 5 seconds for your child to respond.
Model more before giving another bite.
Celebrate any attempt your child makes to copy you.
This turns a daily routine into a language-rich moment.
The Power of Routine
Routines are comforting for children. They provide a sense of security and predictability. By integrating signs into these routines, you help your child connect words with actions. This connection fosters understanding and encourages communication.
Download the Simple Signs Starter Guide to begin using ASL at home or in your classroom today.

In Little Signs, Big Smiles, each page follows the same pattern children experience in real life. A familiar routine. A meaningful sign. A joyful interaction. Families and teachers use this book as a daily language tool, not just a story.

Start Small, Dream Big
Start with one sign today. It can be as simple as more or eat. Each sign you introduce opens a door to new communication possibilities.
Download the free guide. Share this post with a family or teacher who wants less frustration and more connection.
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Reflecting on Daily Routines
What is one daily routine where your child or students need more language? Think about moments that could benefit from additional communication. Whether it’s mealtime, playtime, or bedtime, every moment is an opportunity to connect.
The Importance of Connection
Creating a strong bond through communication is vital. When children feel understood, they thrive. They become more confident and expressive. By using signs, you empower them to share their needs and emotions.
Encouraging Independence
As children learn to communicate, they also learn to advocate for themselves. This independence is crucial for their development. It helps them navigate their world with confidence and clarity.
Building a Supportive Environment
Creating a supportive environment is essential for learning. Surround your child with resources that promote language development. Books, videos, and interactive activities can all play a role in this journey.
The Role of Educators
Teachers play a significant role in language development. By incorporating signs into the classroom, they help all children, including those who are Deaf and Hard of Hearing, feel included and valued.
Embracing Diversity
Embracing diversity in communication styles enriches our communities. By learning and using signs, we celebrate the unique ways in which we all express ourselves. This inclusivity fosters understanding and respect among children.
Conclusion
Language is a beautiful gift. It connects us, empowers us, and helps us express our deepest feelings. By introducing signs early, we pave the way for a brighter future filled with understanding and connection.
Let’s embark on this journey together. Start today, and watch as your child blossoms into a confident communicator.





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